Coffee With The Subconscious

Life is about relationships….

In my last column I mentioned that Ken Warren felt comfortable enough to give me a handwriting sample. It took Jim O’Bryan a few fidgety attempts to ease into his comfort zone. At least he didn’t run out of the Blackbird Bakery door like another Lakewood dignitary when I asked him for a sample of his handwriting.

Let’s talk about the relationship between Kenneth Warren, former Director of Lakewood Library and Jim O’Bryan, Publisher of Lakewood Observer. What does their handwriting reveal about their connection?   

Ken is relaxed and comfortable in his mind. His sensitive intellect is the type that inspires great ideals. Socially compassionate at heart, he’s quite shy and rather timid. He prefers to avoid compromises and fears confrontation. He feels stronger with greater confidence when he’s alone. 

What about this influential Jim O’Bryan? The most dominant characteristic of Jim's handwriting is his persevering energy to fight for the underdog. His character can’t help it!

Why did these seemingly opposite characters enter my life with SSSSoooo much powerful meaning? Are they for real?  

Both Ken and Jim are disciplined in their endeavors with a natural interest and affection for people. They both understand social, political and economic problems, but it’s Jim who is more confident asserting himself with others. Ken’s receptive intelligence wants to adapt and communicate with people. But his cerebral mind needs Jim’s help to shift gears to his instincts. 

Provocative in his approach, Jim can be quite stubborn and obstinate. Jim’s active imagination sometimes has the tendency to complicate things about himself unnecessarily. This is where Ken’s critical mind helps Jim sort out the unnecessary from the relevant.

I’m also a beneficiary of Ken’s sharp penetrating mind. He wrote that my book, ‘Coffee with the Subconscious' is, "above all, a love story clad in graphology." I knew in my heart that my book was a love story, but couldn’t express it.

Whose relationship is ready for the Coffee with the Subconscious column? Love to hear from you… coffeewithb@gmail.com.

Betty Rozakis is a Graphologist/author and resident of Lakewood. She earned her Advanced Diploma from the British Academy of Graphology and her BA in History from Baldwin-Wallace College. She enjoys walking her Golden Doodle, Ella along Clifton Beach.

Betty Rozakis

Graphologist /author resident of Lakewood working on their Column for the Lakewood Observer. Betty Rozakis earned her Advanced Diploma from the British Academy of Graphology and her BA in History from Baldwin-Wallace College.  Author of Coffee with the Subconscious, Betty enjoys walking her Golden Doodle, Ella along Clifton Beach.  www.coffeewithb.com

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